Helping women date safer and smarter
As
a woman considering dating or having a relationship with a guy you
want to know as much about him as possible. So you ask him questions
and hope for the truth. Guess what? Some guys lie. Some of the lies
are harmless like how tall they are or how much money they make.
Others could very possibly be hazardous to your health, emotionally or physically or both. Some guys, such as the one I am
profiling on this web site, Thomas Walter Wolf of Longwood, Fl go to great lengths with their lies to hide their past. Reliable Association Management Longwood FlaFor example Tom doesn't want you to know that he was arrested twice for physically battering 2 different women in very recent years or that he threatened to kill 2 different people also in recent years or that 3 different people since 2010 sought restraining orders against him for violence. Or that according to a local police report, in 2010 he told someone he was going to brutally sexually assault and kill them. Police actually have him on audio saying that. Or how about the fact that he spent 9 days in jail in 2011 for violating a restraining order. I'm not sure what part of "stay away from that lady" he didn't understand. Currently If you ran a criminal background check on Tom without his fingerprints, it would come back that he was pretty much a Boy Scout because all the above incidents were all committed under his old name of Thomas (Tom) Walter Tempfer and he has tried very hard to hide the connection between Tempfer and Wolf. Kerry Mcdonald Maitland Fl Reliable Association Management Longwood Fl
Unless he told you himself and that is probably not happening or this site didn't exist then you would never know and you probably would trust him because he can be a real charmer. That could possibly end up being a costly mistake. I believe that women have a right to know if a man has a history of physical and emotional abuse towards women. What kind of morally decent person could possibly argue with that? Well apparently both Tom and his lowlife attorney feel that you have no right to know that information and they want those facts hidden completely out of sight so that you can never find them. How very sad. That is dishonest, disrespectful to women and shows he has a complete lack of morals and ethics. That from a man who says he is all about truth and transparency. Ha.. And I have just learned that Tom Walter Wolf has now started a blog in which he is twisting the truth and the statements of the women he was arrested for abusing and claiming that each and every one of his arrests was not his fault. He blames both of the women ad even the police and the State Attorney for his arrests. Amazing.... he can't take responsibly for anything. Kerry McDonald Maitland Fl Reliable Association Management Longwood Fl
One
of my biggest pet peeves is people pretending to be someone that
they’re not. Don’t lie about yourself in anyway. I don’t care
how good of a liar you think you are.
Don’t
pretend to be someone you’re not because eventually, people will
see you for the fraud that you are and know you’re completely
full of crap. Kerry McDonald Maitland Fla Orange Grove Park Casselberry Fla ogphoa.blogspot.com
When I met Tom Wolf, on his dating profile he said he was all about truth and transparency. When I asked him if he had any skeletons in his closet, he looked right into my eyes and flat out lied to me, saying absolutely not and then showing me his bogus clean on-line criminal background check that had been run under his new name knowing that it was a total sham. I believe that the meanings of the words integrity, honesty, ethics, morals, respect, truth and decency are completely foreign to this man. I guess the FACT that he had a secret life filled with deceit and multiple arrests under another name has nothing to do with integrity and truth and transparency in his mind or world. Kerry McDonald Maitland Florida
A
web site that was recently ordered removed by a Seminole County Judge may have
possibly saved my life. At the very least, I believe it saved me from potential
physical or emotional abuse. Had my girlfriend not seen that site and
warned me who knows what may have happened to me based on the anger and rage I saw from Tom when I confronted him about his past? Had that site not been
there and the information about Tom W. Wolf not posted on it then there
would have been no way I would have known about his violent history towards women and his misogynist views and I may very well possibly have become another victim of his. Reliable Association Management Longwood FloridaI will do everything in my power to keep this information about Tom Walter Wolf of Longwood, Fl available so that women will know the truth about him so they can make an informed decision about having a relationship with him or not - based on what is true and not the lies he wants you to believe. Kerry McDonald Maitland Fl
Women have an absolute right to know if a man has a history of violence and abuse towards women and no one has the right to take that away from them.
The sole
purpose of this web site is to provide valuable information to women
about a man who now goes by the name of Tom Walter Wolf and
was formally know as Tom Walter Tempfer. Valuable information that they can get no where else but here! Tom wants women (such as he did with me) to believe
that he has no criminal history whatsoever especially since it mainly all revolves around physical violence and threats towards women. kerry mcdonald maitland fla
According
to
the Department of Justice, fewer than 1 in 5 women report their
abuse, mainly because they fear retaliation from their abuser. Tom
Wolf has had 2 arrests (with different women) in a 4 year period not
long
after his divorce. Makes me wonder if there were more because I know I
was terrified when he went crazy, psycho on me. I will never forget the
rage in his face. I could only
imagine that if I were alone with him when I confronted him what
might have possibly happened to me. It is also important to note that
according to court records, the 2 women Tom was arrested for
physically battering were 110lbs and 115lbs and he is close to 200
lbs. Real macho huh?. These were also women he was living with, one
for nearly a year and the other a few months and were not casual
relationships.Reliable Association Management Longwood Fl
Were you aware that a woman is murdered every other day in Florida? Did you know that ever other week a woman is murdered in Central Florida as a result of domestic violence? Were you aware that domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to American women over the age of 15? kerry mcdonald maitland fl
Domestic Violence is a pattern of controlling behaviors – violence or threats of violence – that one person uses to establish power over an intimate partner in order to control that partner’s actions and activities. Domestic violence is not a disagreement, a marital spat, or an anger management problem. Domestic violence is abusive, disrespectful, and hurtful behaviors that one intimate partner chooses to use against the other partner. kerry mcdonald maitland fla
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It will be very interesting to see if anyone steps forward and shows their absolute indifference towards the safety and well being of women and attempts to help Tom Wolf / TomTempfer bury his abusive history towards women by trying to take down this site. I will personally make sure they get their 15 minutes of fame. reliable association management longwood fl
I believe that the person handling the prior situation involving Tom Walter Wolf of Longwood, Fla has already made a difference to women by making the wrong decision. Now it's time for him to step up and make a difference by doing the right thing. kerry mcdonald maitland fla
Orange Grove Park Casselberry Fl Kerry McDonald Maitland Fl
Apparently
In April of 2011, after his arrests started piling up, Tom went to a
Seminole County Judge and got his last name legally changed from
Tempfer to Wolf and immediately asked the Judge to seal the name
change, which she did. I now believe that this was a blatant attempt
to keep anyone from finding out about his criminal past. This belief
is further fortified by the fact that when he went to trial 2 months
later in June for a previous arrest, under oath he swore his name was still Tom Tempfer and
not Tom Wolf, his new name. Why would you do that unless you didn't
want your arrest and conviction to carry over to your new name? Why didn't Tom proudly tell the court his new name of Wolf that he received just 2 months prior to his trial? Why did he lie under oath to a Judge? Ask him. Tom
Wolf currently resides in Longwood, Florida. He also has a residence
in Oviedo, Florida and has lived in Orlando, Florida as well. Recently, he got a
Seminole County Judge to issue a court order saying that a web site that was up about
him was defamatory and libeled him and the site was taken down. That web site
listed a huge array of charges and allegations against him of which some or all may
or may not have been true. I
don't care about what other things Tom Wolf may or may not have done
to others at this moment in time. kerry mcdonald maitland fl
I
care about one issue and one issue only and that is Tom's documented pattern and history of violence towards women and others
and
the fact that without this site women would have no idea how
dysfunctional and dangerous this man has been to women and could potentially be. Based on his history he has shown he has very serious anger management issues and the potential to hurt someone when angered or when he feels disrespected or challenged. Reliable Association Management of Longwood Fl Tom Wolf didn't just do something bad 20 years ago and has since rehabilitated himself. He has committed multiple acts of violence against women and others in very recent years and at his age is very unlikely to change. A tiger doesn't change his stripes. Rather than admit what he has done, he hides it and when confronted with the facts, he either denies it, blames his problems on the women or just gets crazy angry. I believe based on his actions towards me and his history that he is a ticking time bomb. I also believe based on my own personal experience with Tom Wolf and his legal history that it would be fair to say that he is a narcissist, controlling, manipulator with very severe anger management issues. Tom Wolf Longwood Fla
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And Michael, one more thing. Now that you know it is illegal for your client to own guns, are you going to instruct him to get rid of them to comply with the law or is he special and that law doesn't apply to him like the law about hiding your domestic violence history? kerry mcdonald maitland florida
Friday, 28 March 2014 Supreme Court Upholds Gun Ban for “Domestic Violence” Offenders
In a 8 - 1 decision on March 26, the Supreme Court upheld current federal law banning anyone found guilty of domestic violence from possessing a gun. The decision furthermore served to strengthen existing law, by overturning previous district court rulings interpreting the law as applying only to those convicted of “violent use of force” and stating that the ban extended to anyone who had plead guilty to even a misdemeanor charge of domestic violence. kerry mcdonald maitland fl
Evidence shows that people convicted of misdemeanor domestic violence assaults, are likely to commit acts of domestic violence again and that, if they do so with a gun, the risk of death to the victim is significantly increased. reliable association management longwood fl
He can look you right in the eye and
lie and sound so convincing it's frightening. And the scary part is I
think he actually believes his lies. It's pathological. If you do confront him on his past, do as I did and do it in a very public place. Much safer for you. Just saying......... kerry mcdonald maitland flaI confronted him in a Starbucks with a girlfriend watching in my car waiting to call 911 if needed. He got so crazy, psycho angry at me when I asked him if he was Tom Tempfer that this nice guy actually came over and asked if I was alright. That was my cue to get up and leave while I could.
Kerry McDonald Maitland Fl
And for the record girls, I have seen him on and off various dating web sites using locations like Orlando and Oviedo and Lake Mary and Casselberry besides Longwood. He seems to prefer using Seminole County cities. kerry mcdonald maitland fl
Ladies, if you still find him charming and think you can change him then go for it. It's been proven you can't fix stupid and I'm not talking about him.
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Kerry McDonald 301 W. Lake Faith Drive Maitland Fla
Just a little legal information for the legal system and the Google people and then Tom's ugly history of threats and violence towards women and others with all the documentation (or as most would call it "the truth") to back it up following: Reliable Association Management of Longwood Fl
Truth is an Absolute Defense The United State Supreme Court set this defense in stone decades ago: truth is a defense to a libel or slander action. In the landmark case of New York Times Co. v. Sullivan, 376 US 254 (1964). This means that the plaintiff needs to have a strong set of facts to establish libel or slander with evidence of the defamatory statements and proof that these statements are substantially false. However, they need not be 100% false: the courts have created the “substantial truth doctrine” in defamation lawsuits to explain the amount of evidence needed to defend against a defamation case, as well as to prove one. Kerry McDonald Maitland Fla
The substantial truth defense is particularly powerful because a judge will often grant summary judgment in favor of a defendant (thus disposing of the case before it goes to trial) if the defendant can show that the statement the plaintiff is complaining about is substantially true. tom wolf orlando oviedo longwood seminole county fl
All opinions that rely on underlying facts, however, are not necessarily outside the opinion privilege. If you state the facts on which you are basing your opinion, and the opinion you state could be reasonably drawn from those truthful facts, you will be protected even if your opinion turns out to be incorrect. For example, if you were to say "In my opinion, Danielle is failing out of school" it would likely lead your readers to assume that there are some unstated facts you relied on to draw your conclusion. Such a statement would not be protected, as the privilege does not protect back door entry of facts as "opinion" through innuendo. On the other hand, if you state "In my opinion, Danielle is failing out of school because she is a blond and the only thing I ever see her do at the library is check Facebook," this provides the reader with the information you are basing the opinion on, and allows the reader to come to his own conclusion. Reliable Association Management of Longwood Florida
Fair Report Privilege
The fair report privilege will protect you from liability -- even if you publish something that is defamatory -- if you relied upon a official public document or statement by a public official for the false information, made clear that the document or statement was your source, and fairly and accurately used the source. This privilege enables you to freely report, for example, about what people say during a council meeting or from the witness stand during a trial or to quote from public records. Arrest reports are considered public records. Kerry McDonald Maitland Florida
In Cox Broadcasting v. Cohen, 420 U.S. 469 (1975), the Supreme Court of the United States held that the First Amendment to the Constitution prohibits states from imposing a penalty on the press for publishing accurate information obtained from a public court record. As a result of this case, most states including Florida recognize an absolute privilege for publication of information found in a publicly available court record. This means that you cannot be held liable for publishing accurate facts about someone that you find in a public court record, regardless of how embarrassing they are. Note that this privilege will protect you in publishing information about past crimes, so long as you gather your information from publicly available court records, such as an arrest report, indictment or trial transcript. thomas wolf oviedo seminole county fl
Bloggers Are Journalists Under Florida Defamation Law
In general, facts are statements that can be proven true or false; by contrast, opinions are matters of belief or ideas that cannot be proven one way or the other. For example, "Chris is a thief" can be proven false by showing that throughout his entire life Chris never stole anything. Compare that statement with "Chris is a complete moron." The latter is an opinion (or, technically, "a pure opinion"), as what constitutes a moron is a subjective view that varies with the person: one person's moron is not necessarily the next person's moron. Put another way, there would be no way to prove that Chris is not a moron. If a statement is a "pure opinion," it cannot be the basis for a defamation claim. tom wolf oviedo altamonte springs fl orlando sanford fl

There
is nothing on this site that rises to the legal level of libel. Absolutely nothing. Zero - Zilch - NadaFollowing are all of the police reports/arrest reports and court reports we could locate in Central Florida regarding Tom Wolf's arrests and allegations of abuse toward women and others. This is all public record and publication protected by the First Amendment of the Constitution. Mug shots are also considered a public record and protected by the First Amendment as evidenced by their publication in the newspapers daily as well as on multiple web sites. tom wolf sanford fla tom wolf altamonte springs fl
This is one of Tom's arrests including police report and victim statements. Case # 592011CF000039A on Seminole County Clerk of Court web site. You will notice some similarities between his 2 different arrests for domestic violence. In both he claims he was the innocent party and the woman was the aggressor. Also notice that both women had to flee the scene to call for help. Think about it. What are the odds of all this happening to a regular guy. Better chance of winning the lottery huh?![]() |
| This is Tom W Wolf of Longwood, Florida's mug shot from this arrest again when he was Tom Tempfer. Same guy just a different name. |
This is the Injunction for protection from Tom she received. Tom W Wolf Seminole County Fla Tom W Wolf Altamonte Springs Fla Tom W Wolf Lake Mary Fla
This is her statement to the Judge regarding her attack from Tom Wolf aka Tom Tempfer. As a women I can almost feel the fear in her words as she describes how he was going to get his gun and kill her. Also note that she speaks about his alcohol abuse as well as his anger abuse. I have hear that from others as well. kerry mcdonald orlando fla
This is a form she filled out showing that she is afraid of him and some of the things he has done. This is not the only sworn affidavit from a women saying she fears Tom Wolf. kerry mcdonald orlando florida
This is the order showing the court costs for his conviction. Tom plead "no contest" which is Florida's way of allowing cowards to plead guilty without actually saying the words "yes I did it" Funny how he has no problem being the macho man and hitting women half his size but being a man and taking responsibility for his actions - not his style I guess. kerry mcdonald orlando fl
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| This is Tom W Wolf of Longwood, Florida's booking mug shot taken after he was transferred to Seminole County jail after spending over a week in Orange County jail. Tom was originally arrested in Orange County thus the reason he spent a week at 33rd street jail before being transferred. I am working on getting that arrest report but the case is 592011MM01846A and listed on the Seminole County Clerk of Court web site. Remember that all of his arrests are under his other name which was Thomas (Tom) Walter Tempfer. |
What I find so troubling about this particular arrest was Tom's arrogance. He knew he had a GPS monitor attached to his ankle and the Judge who released him on bond as well as the Judge who authorized the restraining order against him both forbid him from contacting the victim and yet he did anyway. He did it because every time he had been in trouble with the law he seemed to somehow get lucky and walk away with no repercussions. His first arrest for battering he was able to talk the victim into not testifying against him and it worked and so he was trying it again because he felt like he was Teflon Tom and nothing would stick to him. I am so glad he spent 9 days in jail for doing this. He also was required to post another $1,000 bond. kerry mcdonald orlando fl
Just 3 years prior to the above arrest for domestic violence, Tom was arrested also for domestic violence. As in the above case, he blames it all on the woman. Note that she also had to flee the scene to call 911 for help at a neighbors. 99999.99% of guys go through life without being arrested for battering a woman and Tom gets a couple a few years apart. Just bad luck I guess. Seminole County case # 592007MM005139A
Unfortunately in this case Tom was able to convince the victim not to testify and the charges had to be dropped. Again he blamed the victim this time accusing her of being a drug addict. If she was then why was she living in his house with him?
Again at his first court appearance a Judge found probable cause for his arrest.
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| This is Tom Wolf of Longwood, Florida's mug shot from his 2007 domestic violence arrest when he was Tom Tempfer and living in Oviedo, Florida. It's funny because he accused the lady he battered of being on drugs and yet he is the one with the glazed eyes. Hmmmm makes you wonder who has the drug habit doesn't it? |
Tom's jail intake information............
This is a police report from the Maitland police department from January of 2010. While the MPD recommended that Tom Tempfer aka Tom Wolf be arrested for felony aggravated stalking. Tom got lucky here because the Orange County State Attorneys office was overwhelmed and underfunded at the time and this case got put on the back burner and he was not prosecuted for it. The police had Tom's actual voice on one of the threats describing in detail what he was going to do as well as his IP address from the e-mails he sent including one from his Facebook account. Too bad because a conviction here could have sent him away for up to 5 years because this was a felony. Aggravated stalking is also considered a crime in the domestic violence category.
The main reason that this police report is so important for women especially is that it is just one more piece of evidence and proof to show Tom's instability and the rage inside of him. No normal or sane person tells another person that they were going to sexually assault and kill them. Especially in the sick way Tom said it almost like he would enjoy doing it. Those are all words and statements from a crazy person. Simply not signs of what a normal or sane person would do. Also note his continued use of the derogatory and vulgar term "cunt". Just another piece of evidence that he is a misogynist pig.
Again all victims names and personal information were redacted as he has put them all through enough already.

Lastly I would like to provide this information. This was all that I could find and there may be more elsewhere or not. Three different people filed for protective orders against Tom under his old name of Thomas Tempfer for violence since 2010. Only 1 of the 3 were granted but this information is important because again it shows his continued pattern of believing that using violence and threats is the way to handle things. The cases are:
2010-DR-000192-0 January 2010 - Orange County Florida
2011-DR-30-06-06D-R January 2011 - Seminole County, Florida
2011-DR-006168-0 April 2011 - Orange County, Florida
As I said earlier, you can possibly spin or explain away one incident but not incident after incident after incident.
On
a personal note, there is something I would like to say. In the few
months this site has been up, I have shown it to probably 100+ women
from all walks of life. Some friends, some acquaintances and others
from groups or clubs I belong too. I wanted to get their feedback and
make sure I was doing a good thing. The response has been
unequivocally, 100% yes. I was also very proud that every single female
expressed the anger and disgust that I felt, that this man, Tom Wolf,
was previously able to use the court system to hide his history of
threats and abuse from everyone. Not just women but everyone has a
right to know who they are dealing with.
If any one has a suggestion or a comment, you are most welcome to leave one but I do not
have a tolerance for harsh and abusive language. Use your right in a good way.


















